For me, I assess any cross that's got 50% (or more) of caudatum or one of its close relatives on a clone by clone basis. Usually the hybrids with "greenies" crossed with the caudatum group, like Grande, appear to love growing bright and wet (for me) with minimal to no rot issues, but every once in awhile, a specific plant shows a clear preference for growing drier.
So what I typically do is start "dry", watering them like I'd water most paphs. Then I start watering more frequently, eventually allowing water to sit in the saucer and just wait while I keep a close eye on things. Most often, even the ones that like to stay dry will be fine in wet conditions when it's warm and bright, so issues might take awhile before they pop up. But if there's any sign of rot, I stop the wet conditions, and revert back to a paph-like watering routine.
But for the most part, it sounds like you've just discovered that your clone, in your growing conditions, doesn't like to grow wet. So, drier growing is the right strategy here.