So judging by the comments, I should hunt down that bag of zeolite again. They were nice consistant 8-10mm pieces, a bit like a fine gravel. It did make the pots a bit heavier when I was using it. (5 parts bark, 1 part chopped shagnum, 1 part coarse perlite and 1 part zeolite) We also have ready access to hardwood charcoal coming out of Namibia, perhaps I should add that in as well, just dont know how to beak it up and grade it without making a hell of a mess.
Zeolite's best thing is for softening water by grabbing and holding Calcium. Is that what you want to happen in your media? Are plant roots going to be able to access the Calcium the zeolite holds?
If there is a bulk dealer for the Namibian charcoal they will likely have a hell of a mess in their shop. Their floor sweepings are perfect. Here in Peru they sell these chips and scraps to the poorest people in small bags.
To crush bigger pieces I make a small pile between 2 sheets of plywood and then drive a car over it a few times, then sift it through a couple different screens. Makes a mess but it is not as bad as hitting each piece with a hammer!